It’s okay to break away from who you thought you were….who you decided you would be at a certain age. It’s okay to let go of that person in your mind and just be who you are. It isn’t always comfortable or easy. But in the end, I’m pretty sure it’s for the best. Journaling is a good way to do that for me. I often get these messages , from myself ,when I’m in the flow and not thinking very much.